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Question ID: 1734 Category: Rights
Husband is not talking since 1 month

Assalamalaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu

My name is afreen wajahath. I am married for 11yrs . My husband's name is mohammed hafeez khan.  I am 34 yrs old house wife. We have 1 daughter.she is 9yrs old,my husband is staying in dubai and i am in india. My husband is not talking to me since past  1 1/ 2 month. Because my mother in law has complained about me. He has blocked me in watsapp and other chatting apps. He is talking to our daughter and his parents. I  am not sure whether he wants to stay with me or not. Please help me.

بسم اللہ الرحمٰن الرحیم

الجواب وباللہ التوفیق

If a mistake or sin was committed by you, immediately pray for forgiveness, and show sincere repentance, with a resolve to not do it again. Be punctual in your five daily prayers and supplications. 

Try to engage your parents or other elders in the family in this matter who could talk to your husband or his parents to help resolve this impasse.

Read the following verse eleven times after every obligatory prayer and pray with a sincere heart:

’’ وَأَلَّفَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ لَوْ أَنْفَقْتَ مَا فِي الْأَرْضِ جَمِيعًا مَا أَلَّفْتَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ وَلَكِنَّ اللَّهَ أَلَّفَ بَيْنَهُمْ إِنَّهُ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ ‘‘

After Isha prayer, recite "Ya-wadood" 1400 times and then ask Allah (SWT) for HIS mercy and blessings that He Almighty restores love and understanding between both of you.

If you are neglecting any of the rights of your husband, arrange to take care of those rights.

فقط واللہ اعلم بالصواب