Assalam o alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu
I am from Edmonton Alberta Canada. My son is 35 yrs old and lives in Dallas Texas for 6 yrs now. He is married and has a 6 yrs old daughter. My concern is that being attached with all his colleagues in the university where he is a professor he is being distracted from deen. He used to be five time namazi and used to go in Jamat every month. He used to go in gasht also but now slowly slowly he has left everything. For some months he doesn’t go for Jummah namaz also Now even in Ramadan he just went for taraweeh two to three times and started making excuses. Doesn’t pray at home also. He is irritated and gets angry all the time even with his daughter.
We (my husband, his wife and me) are extremely worried for him. His wife is doubtful if he is having an affair with some girl in the university.
Please provide us a wazeefa or supplication which will help him come back towards the teachings of Islam and away from all evils.
JazakAllah khair
Daily at any time, recite Salawat upon the Prophet ﷺ eleven times, then recite the following dhikr:رَبَّنَا ہَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّیَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْیُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِینَ إِمَامًا then 333 times یا ھادی یا رشی
After that, again recite Salawat upon the Prophet ﷺ eleven times, then blow over water and let your son drink it. The same practice may also be done before sleeping at night by reciting and blowing over him.
Also, after every prayer, continue to recite the following supplication:
رَبَّنَا لَا تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِنْ لَدُنْكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْوَهَّابُ (آل عمران : ۱۹)
May Allah Almighty grant your son safety, well-being, and success in both worlds, protect him from harm, and make him a source of comfort for your eyes.
روزآنہ کسی وقت گیارہ مرتبہ درود شریف پھر گیارہ مرتبہ
رَبَّنَا ہَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّیَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْیُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِینَ إِمَامًا پھر ۳۳۳ مرتبہ یا ھادی یا رشید
اس کے بعد پھر گیارہ مرتبہ درود شریف پڑھ کر پانی پر دم کرکے اپنے بیٹے کو پلا دیا کریں اور یہی عمل رات کو سونے سے قبل کرکے اس پر پر دم کردیا کریں ۔
نیز ہر نماز کے بعد یہ بھی مانگتے رہیں:
رَبَّنَا لَا تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِنْ لَدُنْكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْوَهَّابُ (آل عمران : ۱۹)
اللہ تعالی آپ کے بیٹے کو عافیت و سعادت دارین سے نوازے مکارہ سے محفوظ رکھے اور آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک بنائے۔