I got married the 1st time when I was 16 years old. during the nikkah, my husband, his friend, the Qadi and I was present. My parents did not consent to the marriage. Within 6 months of my marriage, I became pregnant with my first child. My husband and i would argue which resulted in misunderstandings among us.
Then, he got married again in another country without telling me. When he came back and told me, I got upset and left to my parents house. Just out of revenge, I married again.
I soon realized this was a big mistake because I was very unhappy in that second marriage and I got contact with my 1st husband again.
We started seeing each other again. Soon I was pregnant with his child again. Because of society, we again couldnt be together so we just stayed apart.
Recently, he is empahizing that he belives im still his wife and we should move in together. I also feel the same way. His second wife does not want so.
I really want to follow the Qur'an and sunnah. Please advise me which marriage is valid.
Fatawa ID: 1320