Weak Sexual Performance

Assalaamualykum wa rehmatullaahi wa barakaatahu Dear Sir,

During inter course I am feeling fear for inserting my penis to my wife, during foreplay I am having full erection but before inserting penis I am loosing my erection due to fear.
I don't know the reason of sacredness. 
Also I am not feeling sexy when looking towards my wife. She is looks like more innocent and I am not able to inter course with her.
Two times I tried but she felt pain in her vagina. 
So I postponed inter course.
Please guide me sir for unknown fear. 

I did urine, blood and semen test.
Blood report were normal 
 

Thanking you very much sir 

 

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ
الجواب وباللہ التوفیق
الجواب وبالله التوفيق  Consult some Hakeem/Doctor and also have the treatment done. Inshaa Allaah there is hope for improvement. واللہ اعلم  بالصواب

Fatawa ID: 617

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