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الجواب وباللہ التوفیق:  

  First of all, try not give your husband a chance for him to complain, obey him, and take care of his needs. Now that a mistake has been made and you have apologized and have promised to be careful in the future, they should forgive you, and you two should now be back on track for a happy married life. Do not end the married life because ending that relationship is not pleasing to Allah. The most disliked thing in the sight of Allah is divorce 

There are conspiracies and attempts of demons to end a marriage, which impacts not only two people but two entire families. Then there is an endless series of hatred and animosity between them. So, this important relationship should be maintained as best as possible, and its  breakup must be avoided

  Those who committed excesses will be held accountable before Allah 

 If you have really been wronged, then obviously it is not permissible. It is also not permissible to take side of the oppressor in their oppression. Also, not allowed is to force someone to endure ill treatment and abuse. Such an action will be severely punished by Allah 

The husband should act with restraint and sanity and be concerned about his wife's rights and her well-being. However, it should be kept in mind that private conversations of both spouses are considered secrets, and it is not right to mention anything about that to anyone else without the permission of one of them. It can lead to strife and discord, ruin relationships, so avoid making complaints and accusations 

If there is no reconciliation possible, try to involve sagacious elders in the family to help resolve those issues, but if all that fails, then a     (دار القضاء) reach out to the judiciary           

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