They got married on March 20, 2020. At the time of the wedding, the bride was staying in America and the groom was with his family and the bride’s family in Bangladesh. In the video call, the bride accepts, and her father signs on behalf of the bride. Bride accepts (says the Kobul) over video call that her father, Kazi, and everyone else listened. Bride’s father did not pronounce anything on behalf of her. The dowry was written as collected in the Kabin, but the groom did not give it to the bride’s family.

After a few days of marriage, quarrels started between them over the phone, and the bride sometimes started abusing her husband, because she felt mentally stressed and helpless. The groom had informed the bride from the beginning that if she abused him for any reason, the bride would be divorced for the fourth time. Such abuse happened more than four times. The bride repeatedly apologized for her actions and asked for time until she returned home. Regardless, the groom divorced her according to the Muslim Shariah of that country on November 9, 2020, before she arrived in her home country. Before the divorce, the groom did not inform the bride and did not discuss it with her family.

For divorce, the groom went to a law firm and got a lawyer’s help. There the Kazi Saheb recites the Khutba and recites aloud who is divorcing whom. The groom nods three times to the yes indicator response. Then signed the written divorce papers. It is noted that the lawyer gave two options to the husband: 1) to give three talaqs at once (Talaq e Bayeen), 2) to give one Talaq, and then to give the remaining two talaqs at intervals of one month. The lawyer said that triple Talaq in one sitting would be effective after three months, like one Talaq in one sitting, but the husband need not go and sign three times. The groom opted for three divorces (Talaq E Bayeen) in one sitting. The divorce papers are sent to America and then she comes home. The bride tries to communicate with the groom and his family, but they do not give her a chance. Then in March 2021, the divorce became official.

NB: Remarriage with the divorced partner for the second time is allowed under the counsel of their marriage & divorce. In this case, for one time marriage, one time divorce is counted even though the divorce is pronounced thrice. In this way, after marrying and divorcing three times, the husband and wife becomes haram for each other. The link is attached here (see section 7: Talaq)

http://bdlaws.minlaw.gov.bd/act-details-305.html