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When the word “divorce” comes out of the husband's mouth for his wife, divorce takes place whether it is said in a normal state of mind or in a state of anger. In your case, one divorce has already taken place upon you. 

Since your husband divorced you after the intercourse, as stated, then if your husband  reconciles with you within your waiting period “Iddah”, your marriage will remain intact.  But later in your married life, the husband will have the option of only two divorces. After subjecting you to those two divorces, the wedlock will immediately terminate with irrevocable divorce.

The method of reconciliation after a single divorce is for the husband:

a. to verbally say that I have reconciled with my wife.

b. or to caress his wife.

c. or lovingly kiss his wife. 

Additionally, it is better to have witnesses on this decision for record purposes. 

If the husband does not reconcile during “Iddah”, then after completion of the “Iddah” period, the wife will be excluded from his marriage, and will be allowed to marry wherever she wants. 

We suggest that you approach a “Dar al-Qadhaa” in your area for a solution to this problem. 

ھکذا فی فتاویٰ محمودیہ بحوا لات کثیرۃ منھا ویقع طلاق من غضب... قلت وللحافظ ابن القیم الحنبلی رسالۃ فی طلاق الغضبان قال فیھا انہ علی ثلثہ اقسام احل ھا ان یحصل لہ مبادی الغضب بحیث لا یتغیر عقلہ ویعلم ما یقول ویقصدہ وھذا   اشکال فیہ -(فتاویٰ شامی کتاب الطلاق)

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