My husband said talaq 3 time in one sitting and he was very mad at that time.isit considered as only one talaq because, i read online and also i was in my menstrual cycle at that time ad he didnot knew that. i want to know is this talaq valid..also we wanted to reconcile and we had sexual intercourse after i was clean...please i want to know can we get together back . i want my husband back please....if you can please reply me greatly appreciated...
الجواب وبالله التوفيق
As per the situation described in your question, 3 divorces have taken place (which constitutes Talaq-e-Mughallidhaor an irrevocable divorce). This ruling is consistent across all 4 authentic madhahib(i.e. Hanafi, Shaf‘ai, Maliki and Hambali). It is Haram(impermissible) for the two of you to live together without performing a ‘Shar‘ai Halalah’, and having any physical relationship is strictly impermissible and a major sin. The two of you should repent and do Istaghfarfor whatever has happened after the divorce.
فَاِنۡ طَلَّقَهَا فَلَا تَحِلُّ لَهٗ مِنۡۢ بَعۡدُ حَتّٰى تَنۡكِحَ زَوۡجًا غَيۡرَهٗ ؕ (البقرۃ 230
عن ابی ھریرۃرضی اللہ تعالی ٰ عنہ قال قال النبی ؐثلاث جدھن جد و ھزلھن جد النکاح والطلاق والرجعۃ
(ابو داؤد، ترمذی –باب فی الطلاق علی الھزل)
The fact that you were in menstruation and your husband was mad at you does not change the above ruling.
(ویقع طلاق من غضب (رد المحتار
The process of a Shar‘ai Halalah is as follows:
Once the above steps have been taken, this woman will be allowed to marry her previous husband.